Opening Exercises 2013: Princeton's Honor World

As prepared for delivery on Sept. 8, 2013, in the University Chapel

Greeting

Good afternoon and welcome to Opening Exercises. What a special pleasure it is to greet Princeton's great Class of 2017! I also offer a warm welcome to our new graduate students, faculty and staff members, and all of you who are returning to campus after the summer.

Today we carry on a tradition that dates back at least to 1802, when Nassau Hall was the site of an opening exercise for Princeton students. The event switched to other sites before moving in 1929 to the University Chapel, where we gather today. Today's interfaith ceremony is far different from the Christian services that greeted students in 1929, but the chapel's soaring architecture and inspirational spaces continue to invite all of us, whatever our religious or ethical traditions might be, to reflect on the larger purposes that should guide our community as we begin another year on this glorious campus.

I expect that I will always feel a special bond with those of you who arrive here in the Class of 2017, because this year we will embark on exciting new Princeton journeys together. For you, this means joining the storied tradition of students who have left their marks on the Princeton campus — and the world — through their intellect, creativity and passion. For me, this means assuming the responsibility and privilege of serving as president of this magnificent and beloved university.
      
You, the 1,286 members of the Class of 2017, are an extraordinarily accomplished, inspiring and diverse group. You hail from 46 states, as well as the District of Columbia. You come from 54 countries outside of the United States — from Peru to Poland to the Philippines, from Canada to Cote D'Ivoire. Your voracious appetites for knowledge were fostered in Sandwich, Massachusetts, and Apple Valley, Minnesota. You learned to confront challenges in Locust Valley, New York, and Hurricane, West Virginia. Your senses of citizenship, service and compassion were developed in Loveland, Ohio; Flowery Branch, Georgia; and Happy Valley, Hong Kong.
      
To those who traveled from across the globe, and those who arrived from towns, cities and states across America, we are thrilled to have you here.
      
Let me also express a warm welcome to our 582 new graduate students, who arrive at Princeton with undergraduate degrees from 230 colleges and universities around the world — further exemplifying that Princeton is indeed a truly global institution. As scholars who will create new knowledge, enhance the discourse in all disciplines here on campus, and one day become leaders in your fields, you are outstanding additions to the Princeton community.
      
Welcome, as well, to the 44 members of the faculty who will join us this academic year. We are fortunate to bring aboard scholars who are pathbreaking researchers and distinguished teachers, whose contributions will be critical to upholding Princeton's unique mission as a renowned research university and the world's best liberal arts college. I also welcome new members of the Princeton staff. In our academic departments, libraries, administrative offices, athletics programs, student centers, building and dining services — in every corner of the campus — our dedicated staff members play indispensable roles in helping our University thrive.
      
I now have the great pleasure of introducing to you our Dean of the College, and the Woodrow Wilson Professor of Literature, Valerie Smith, who will present academic awards recognizing the extraordinary achievements of seven undergraduates.
      
Address
      
One of the great joys of collegiate life is the sense of renewal that comes each September, when new undergraduates and graduate students infuse the campus with fresh talent, energy, perspective and enthusiasm. We know that the great Class of 2017 will enrich this University enormously, adding to Princeton's lore and luster in ways that we can for now scarcely imagine. We are excited to have you here.
    
And, truth be told, I think that my fellow administrators, faculty members, alumni and trustees who are in attendance today would admit that not only are we excited to have you here, we also envy you. You are at the beginning of a Princeton adventure that will challenge you, thrill you and transform you. Unanticipated possibilities await you, and most of you will later look back on the next four years as among the best in your life.

People remember new events better than routine ones, so it should not surprise you to learn that most Princeton alumni retain vivid images of their first days on campus. Certainly that is so for me. Thirty-four years have now passed since my arrival on this campus, and I have to confess that the mists of time envelop my youthful memories more thickly every year. Yet, I recall moments from orientation week with startling clarity. I remember, for example, not only which Mozart piece was played after the Freshman Assembly, but the identities and reactions of the two young men seated in front of me at the time.

I remember, too, what Frederic Fox '39, keeper of Princetoniana, said to the freshman class at that assembly. He told us that we should always respect Harvard and Yale. [Yes, we responded the same way. Some things apparently don’t change, even after thirty-four years.] To be precise, Frederic Fox '39 said we should always respect Harvard and Yale because they are two of the greatest colleges in all of New England. And I have tried to keep that sage counsel in mind ever since, especially when I am visiting New England.

Yet, for all the things that I do remember, I do not remember what the then-president of the University, Bill Bowen, said to us that week. In fact, I do not know whether he spoke to us at all. I presume he did, but I cannot recall for sure, and, if he did, I do not remember a word of his speech.

In fact, over the course of my academic career as a student, faculty member and administrator, I have heard a great many addresses by university presidents at formal academic gatherings, and I remember almost none of them. So I suspect that while this week will be very memorable for all of you, my speech will not be. Some of you might be listening more carefully than I was, because you are playing "Opening Exercises bingo," sponsored by those rascally ne'er-do-wells at Tiger Magazine, but even then you will notice only individual words from my speech, not the meaning of it.

As you might imagine, I reflected on that fact as I composed these remarks. You might think that it would be depressing to me, as I sat down to write my first ceremonial address as president, to recognize that few if any of you would remember anything that I said. But in fact I found it rather liberating. It relieves me of any concern that my advice might somehow lead you astray or compromise your Princeton experience. What you won't remember will not help you, but it cannot harm you, either.
      
And, of course, I have done what professors traditionally do to reinforce their lectures. I have assigned you a book, Anthony Appiah’s "The Honor Code." Later tonight you will hear from Professor Appiah himself. I am hoping that even if you do not remember what I said, you will remember something of what he says — or, in any event, what he wrote in his book.

I am hoping, above all, that you will remember the question that motivates Professor Appiah's book — the question of what it means to live a successful human life. Professor Appiah believes, as do I, that living well has at least two parts to it: living a life that makes you happy, and living a life that is of service to others.

There is an oft-quoted expression, attributed to both the charismatic congresswoman Shirley Chisholm and the renowned activist Marian Wright Edelman, that "service is the rent we pay for living in this world." I admire this sentiment — namely, that service will be part of any life well-lived — but I worry that the formulation is misleading. Describing "service" as "rent" makes it seem like a price that we pay for our happiness. You can do whatever makes you feel good, in other words, so long as you pay for it by donating time to others.

I suspect that is not what either Chisholm or Edelman meant. They undoubtedly recognized that service, far from being a price that we pay for happiness, is the precondition for it. To find an activity truly fulfilling, you must both take pleasure in it and feel a strong sense of connection between it and a larger purpose for your life.

You can achieve that connection in a wide variety of ways. Nearly any honest vocation will enable you to make a contribution to the world if you do it right. What matters is not so much which career you have but how you do it, and how you do it matters a lot.

One of the reasons that Princeton's students and alumni so treasure their time on this campus is that they feel a connection to a larger purpose while they are here. Over the years to come, you will find yourselves challenged, stimulated and engaged, and you will also feel that you are doing something that matters — preparing yourself for the future, for your future, for important but as yet unknown things to come.

Indeed, one of the great gifts of college life, and one of the defining insights of liberal arts education, is that you can and must prepare for important things to come without knowing exactly what they are. You will inhabit a world, in this week and in the years to come, defined by possibilities that are almost unlimited. The person seated in front of you today, in this chapel, may turn out to be someone whom you see only rarely, or someone who becomes one of the closest friends of your lifetime. He or she may end up being a pathbreaking scientist, a celebrated writer, a dedicated public servant or an influential business leader. Their futures, and yours, are for now unwritten.

Professor Appiah's more specific concern is, of course, with honor. I suspect, given who all of you are and how you got here, that you are disposed to take honor seriously and to pursue it. You have been inducted into honor societies, graduated with honors, and honored in one way or another throughout the past year. Caring about honor, as Professor Appiah makes clear, can be a very good thing — it can help to guide you in the direction of vocations and practices that make your life fulfilling.

To borrow his words for a moment, honor "can help to sustain us in our pursuit of our own good. … [I]t is … an engine, fueled by the dialogue between our self-conceptions and the regard of others, that can drive us to take seriously our responsibilities in a world we share." ["The Honor Code," 179]

Princeton’s own Honor Code is an example of that. That code is part of what it means to be a Princetonian. It insists not only that you observe basic principles of scholarly integrity in your own work, but also that you care deeply about the scholarly integrity of your fellow students.

Over the last decade, I have spoken to many Princeton alumni, and I have been impressed by how much the Honor Code means to them. One alumnus from the 1970s told me this summer that he always gives the benefit of the doubt to Princeton alumni partly because he knows that their character has been reinforced by their commitment to this University's Honor Code.

But as Professor Appiah's book makes clear, a concern for honor can also lead to self-destructive behavior. His examples, such as dueling, are historical, but you can easily find others that are closer to home. Consider, for example, the hazing rituals that take place on college campuses, including this one. Decades after dueling went the way of the dinosaurs, German fraternities encouraged pledges to participate in sword fights known as "academic duels." The scars they received were regarded as badges of honor.

American hazing rituals involve alcohol rather than weapons. But the behavior is equally driven by a desperate desire for social esteem, equally self-destructive, and, if anything, more lethal — unfortunately, studies indicate that at least one American undergraduate dies in college hazing rituals each year.

Whether honor ennobles or degrades depends on the values and practices of your community — on the content of what Professor Appiah calls your honor world. When you arrived on this campus a few days ago, you became part of Princeton’s honor world, a community devoted to learning, to integrity, to being "in the nation's service and in the service of all nations," and to sustaining a warm and inclusive network that has its heart on this campus but extends across geography and time, binding together alumni of all generations.

Within that community, you will find yourselves surrounded by people who share these ideals but disagree — sometimes vigorously — about what they entail. I hope that during your time you will seek out conversations with all of these people — with professors, coaches, deans, counselors, chaplains, staff members and, of course, fellow students. Learn from them. Question them. Question yourself. Rarely if ever again will you find yourself in contact with so many thoughtful people who can help you reflect upon your life project — what, in days gone by, people might have referred to as your calling.

All of you have been blessed with exceptional talents, and your time on this campus is itself a great gift. When, four years from now, you graduate from Princeton, you will find it easier than most people to be successful at whatever career you pursue. But being successful is not the same thing as being fulfilled or living a life that matters.

So I hope that, as you pursue classwork and research, as you compete on the playing fields, as you sing, dance and perform your way through Princeton, as you enjoy the camaraderie of the wonderful students around you — as, in other words, you experience all that this University has to offer — you will also find time to wrestle with and to delight in the question about what it means to live life well.

If you are like most Princetonians who came before you, you will not find your calling until sometime after you graduate from this University. But if you are like most Princetonians who came before you, you will also find that it helps to start asking the relevant questions sooner rather than later.
   
So, I hope that long after you have forgotten my words this day, you will nevertheless remember why you came here: to immerse yourselves in Princeton's honor world. To challenge yourselves. To seek your callings. And to enjoy yourselves, for you have now become, and you shall forever be, Princeton’s great Class of 2017. It is wonderful to have you here. Welcome to Princeton!
      
 


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